Tuesday, September 9, 2025

Finding Your Own Voice in a Noisy World – A Shipping Life Lesson

🚒 Finding Your Own Voice in a Noisy World – A Shipping Life Lesson

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🌊 Introduction

In Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge, there’s a scene where the aunt is choosing a sari. Shah Rukh Khan secretly signals his preferences, and eventually, she picks his choice—not her own. Imagine if there were ten Shah Rukhs, each with different opinions—how confusing would that be?

That’s exactly what’s happening in our lives today. Whether it’s WhatsApp groups, Instagram reels, or shipping decisions, everyone has an opinion on what we should like, do, or follow. And slowly, our own voice gets drowned.

But here’s the truth: in shipping and in life, just like a Master has to decide the course in rough seas, you too must choose your path, guided by your own compass.

 

1. The Reel Story – When Opinions Take Over

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A friend of mine forwarded a reel made by Sudame in our WhatsApp group. After criticism, Sudame deleted it. Strangely, my friend—who was never trolled—also deleted his forward. Why? Because he felt pressured by others’ opinions.

This is our reality. Earlier, we enjoyed experiences freely: walking barefoot on grass, eating sweets, or watching a movie without guilt. Today, every action is judged:
πŸ‘‰ “That’s unhealthy.”
πŸ‘‰ “That author supports this ideology.”
πŸ‘‰ “That director tweeted something controversial.”

In shipping, too, I’ve seen young officers hesitate to take initiative because they fear, “What will others say if I’m wrong?” Yet, hesitation can cost time, money, and even safety.

πŸ’‘ Lesson: If you like something, own it. In life and at sea, don’t delete your joy just because others disagree.

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2. The Weight of Opinions – Losing Our Pure Experience

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Today, social media and endless opinions weigh on us. If you walk barefoot, someone says it’s bad. If you read a book, people judge you by the author’s ideology. If you watch a film, they link you to the director’s controversy. If you eat sweets, you’re told it’s unhealthy.

In shipping, too, every decision is judged—“Why this port agent? Why bunker here? Why dry-dock now?” But the truth is, no decision is perfect. The Master and owners decide with the best knowledge at hand.

Life’s experiences—like dance, art, or even a hot gulab jamun—are meant to be savored. But under the burden of judgments, we’ve forgotten how to simply enjoy.

πŸ’‘ Lesson: Every decision need not be socially certified. Sometimes, it’s enough that you feel it’s right.

Hashtags: #SeafarerWisdom #MaritimeLeadership #ShippingDecisions #GrowthMindset

 

3. Listening to Your Own Voice – The Hidden Power

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Here’s the real question: how do we even know what we truly like? Have our choices become society’s choices?

The hidden power we all have is the ability to hear our own voice. Sadly, many go through life without ever listening to it. In shipping, Masters who trust their inner compass navigate storms wisely, while those swayed by too many external voices risk confusion and delay.

πŸ’‘ Lesson: Eat what you love. Watch the movie that excites you. Wear the clothes you enjoy. Attend the gatherings that matter to you. Critics will always talk. But when you listen to your own voice, life becomes authentic again.

Hashtags: #ShipOpsExcellence #InnerCompass #MaritimeWisdom #OwnYourJourney

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🌟 Final Thoughts & Call-to-Action

Not every experience has to be “perfect.” What matters is that it is yours. Just like a voyage may not always be smooth, but it’s still your journey.

Trust your compass. Listen to your own voice. Savor your experiences fully—without letting the noise of others drown your joy.

πŸ™ Dear Shipping Family,
What’s one choice you made—despite criticism—that gave you true happiness? Share your story. It might inspire another seafarer today.

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